How do you say “Sit on the fence” in German?
The closest natural German equivalent is zwischen den Stühlen sitzen, which literally means “to sit between the chairs”. English speakers use sit on the fence to mean to avoid taking sides in a disagreement or decision. German lacks an exact metaphorical equivalent for deliberate fence-sitting. While 'zwischen den Stühlen sitzen' is the most common figurative counterpart, it often carries a stronger connotation of being caught uncomfortably between two sides rather than staying neutral on purpose. It is informal, neutral and common in everyday German.
Closest natural German
zwischen den Stühlen sitzen
[ˈtsvɪʃn̩ deːn ˈʃtyːlən ˈzɪtsn̩]
- Literal meaning
- “to sit between the chairs”
- Register
- informal, neutral
- How often it's used
- common
- Equivalence
Close equivalent
78 out of 100
What a native German speaker would actually say
The English idiom 'sit on the fence' evokes the image of someone perched high between two pastures, deliberately delaying commitment until the outcome is clear. German does not use the fence metaphor at all. The closest traditional idiom is 'zwischen den Stühlen sitzen', which stems from the proverb about trying to sit on two chairs at once and falling to the ground.
However, the emotional nuance differs subtly: an English fence-sitter is often opportunistic or cautious by choice, whereas sitting 'zwischen den Stühlen' in German frequently describes the awkward, uncomfortable state of being caught in the crossfire of two opposing factions. Because of this shift in tone, native German speakers often bypass the metaphor entirely in modern speech and instead say 'sich nicht festlegen wollen' or 'keine Partei ergreifen'.
How close is the meaning?
- Meaning4 out of 5
- Tone4 out of 5
- Context4 out of 5
- Literal similarity1 out of 5
These ratings are editorial approximations, not measurements.
What are other ways to say it in German?
sich nicht festlegen
Literally: “to not commit oneself”
Extremely natural and common in everyday German when someone refuses to take a definite stance.
keine Partei ergreifen
Literally: “to not seize a party”
Slightly more formal; directly means avoiding taking sides in a dispute.
keine Farbe bekennen
Literally: “to not confess color”
Used when someone refuses to reveal their true allegiance or opinion.
Don't translate it literally
auf dem Zaun sitzen
This is a literal word-for-word anglicism that makes no idiomatic sense to native German speakers.
Word-for-word versions like these are understood as literal statements in German, not as expressions.
In context
English
You can't sit on the fence forever; you have to choose a side.
German
Du kannst nicht ewig zwischen den Stühlen sitzen; du musst dich für eine Seite entscheiden.
English
The minister preferred to sit on the fence rather than alienate voters.
German
Die Ministerin wollte sich lieber nicht festlegen, anstatt Wähler zu verprellen.
Related expressions
- What “Sit on the fence” means in English
- Beat around the bush, To avoid the main point.
- Get cold feet, To become nervous and back out.
Last reviewed 2026-09-11
