How do you say “Pull yourself together” in German?
The closest natural German equivalent is sich zusammenreißen, which literally means “to tear oneself together”. English speakers use pull yourself together to mean to regain control of your emotions and behave calmly after feeling upset, angry, or panicked. "Sich zusammenreißen" is the direct and most natural German equivalent, used in virtually the exact same emotional and disciplinary situations as "pull yourself together". It is informal, neutral and common in everyday German.
Closest natural German
sich zusammenreißen
[zɪç t͡suˈzamənˌʁaɪ̯sn̩]
- Literal meaning
- “to tear oneself together”
- Register
- informal, neutral
- How often it's used
- common
- Equivalence
Near-exact equivalent
98 out of 100
What a native German speaker would actually say
The German idiom "sich zusammenreißen" is an almost perfect conceptual match for "pull yourself together". Both phrases carry an underlying physical metaphor of unity: where English imagines pulling scattered pieces back into one place, German imagines forcefully binding or hauling oneself together ("zusammenreißen"). Both expressions can be used as an imperative command to someone losing control, as well as an internal effort to regain focus in high-stress situations.
While "Reiß dich zusammen!" matches the blunt, sometimes harsh edge of "Pull yourself together!", it can also express sheer willpower and discipline without anger. In casual contexts, Germans might also use the slangy "Krieg dich wieder ein!" when someone is overreacting, but "sich zusammenreißen" remains the universal standard across both informal speech and everyday neutral writing.
How close is the meaning?
- Meaning5 out of 5
- Tone5 out of 5
- Context5 out of 5
- Literal similarity2 out of 5
These ratings are editorial approximations, not measurements.
What are other ways to say it in German?
sich einkriegen
Literally: “to get oneself in”
Colloquial and slightly dismissive, equivalent to 'get a grip' or 'calm down already'.
sich fassen
Literally: “to grasp oneself”
More formal and literary, used when recovering composure after shock or grief.
Haltung bewahren
Literally: “to maintain posture/attitude”
Formal equivalent, akin to 'keeping one's composure' or 'maintaining a stiff upper lip'.
Don't translate it literally
Zieh dich zusammen
This is a word-for-word calque of 'pull yourself together' that makes no sense in German; it sounds like physically contracting or dressing warmly.
Word-for-word versions like these are understood as literal statements in German, not as expressions.
In context
English
Pull yourself together! We have to find a solution right now.
German
Reiß dich zusammen! Wir müssen jetzt eine Lösung finden.
English
She took a deep breath to pull herself together before entering the room.
German
Sie atmete tief durch, um sich zusammenzureißen, bevor sie den Raum betrat.
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Last reviewed 2026-09-11
