How do you say “It takes two to tango” in Spanish?
The closest natural Spanish equivalent is La responsabilidad es de los dos, which literally means “The responsibility is of the two”. English speakers use it takes two to tango to mean both people involved in a difficult situation or argument share the blame or responsibility. A direct match for the shared-responsibility meaning used on this page. It does not cover every use of the English, which can also refer to cooperation. Register: neutral. Usage frequency: common.
Closest natural Spanish
La responsabilidad es de los dos
/la responsabiliˈdad es de los dos/
- Literal meaning
- “The responsibility is of the two”
- Register
- neutral
- How often it's used
- common
- Equivalence
Close equivalent
86 out of 100
What a native Spanish speaker would actually say
The English uses a dance for something involving two people. The Spanish wording states shared responsibility without the playful image.
It sounds firmer and more explicit. Neither wording establishes that both people are equally to blame; that depends on what happened.
How close is the meaning?
- Meaning5 out of 5
- Tone3 out of 5
- Context5 out of 5
- Literal similarity1 out of 5
These ratings are editorial approximations, not measurements.
What are other ways to say it in Spanish?
Los dos tienen parte de culpa
Literally: “The two have a part of blame”
Use when both people contributed to something going wrong.
Dos no discuten si uno no quiere
Literally: “Two do not argue if one does not want to”
An established saying about refusing to sustain an argument; it is not proof of equal blame.
Common translation traps
Dos no discuten si uno no quiere
Do not use this to establish equal responsibility automatically; it says an argument needs participation from both sides.
The notes above explain why these versions do not work in this context in Spanish.
In context
English
Don’t blame only Luis; it takes two to tango.
Spanish
No culpes solo a Luis; la responsabilidad es de los dos.
English
They both broke the agreement; it takes two to tango.
Spanish
Los dos incumplieron el acuerdo; la responsabilidad es de los dos.
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Last updated 2026-09-13