Break the ice
/breɪk ði aɪs/informalUK · US
What does “Break the ice” mean?
Break the ice means to help people feel relaxed enough to start talking.
Breaking the ice helps a conversation get started. A question, a joke or a shared activity can make people feel more comfortable.
It sounds friendly and practical. It usually describes a small first step, rather than a close friendship.
When do people say it?
Use it when strangers meet or a conversation starts awkwardly.
“I asked about her dog to break the ice.”
Is it formal or informal?
Register: informal. It is most at home in everyday conversation rather than formal writing. Most common in UK and US.
Where does it come from?
The image is of breaking a barrier so movement can begin. The exact route into everyday conversation is not settled.
Origin confidence: Disputed; treat with caution
How do you say “Break the ice” in other languages?
Related idioms
- Down to earth, Practical, humble, and sensible
- Hit it off, Get along well from the start.
Last updated 2026-09-12