The birds and the bees
/ðə bɜːdz ən ðə biːz/informalUK · US
What does “The birds and the bees” mean?
The birds and the bees means the basic facts about sex and reproduction
“We had the birds-and-the-bees talk” means someone explained the basics of sex and reproduction. It does not describe a lesson about wildlife.
The phrase can make an adult conversation about the topic sound lighter. When giving the explanation itself, clear names are usually more helpful than the euphemism.
When do people say it?
Usually used for a parent’s explanation of sex and reproduction to a child. It is an indirect, sometimes joking way to name the topic.
“Dad felt awkward starting the birds-and-the-bees talk with us.”
Is it formal or informal?
Register: informal. It is most at home in everyday conversation rather than formal writing. Most common in UK and US.
Where does it come from?
The phrase refers indirectly to human reproduction through familiar animals. It lets speakers mention the subject without naming sex directly.
Origin confidence: Disputed; treat with caution
How do you say “The birds and the bees” in other languages?
Last updated 2026-10-01